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Posts Tagged ‘getting through tough times’

I’ll Loan You My Umbrella: 5 Ways to Face the Tough Times

Friday, July 15th, 2011

By Guest Blogger Carol Roth

Once upon a time, when things were getting a bit rough, someone suggested to me that we run away together to Paris.

It was an extremely romantic notion and for a fleeting moment, thoughts of sitting in a café for the rest of my life eating pain au chocolat (aka chocolate croissants) sounded mighty tempting (and delicious).

But I came to the quick realization that I am not the runaway type.  I am more the stand-in-the-middle-of-a-shit-storm-with-an-umbrella type, because moving to Paris or even plain-old avoiding an issue doesn’t make reality go away.  You can run to the end of the earth, but if you don’t face the tough stuff, it will always haunt you.

While it is tempting to run from uncomfortable situations, problems, challenges or sometimes even opportunities, emotionally or physically taking off will not solve anything.  It just distracts you from your goals and purposes.  And when the going gets tough, those who will persevere are the ones willing to face the storm head on.

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Living Through Tough Economic Times

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

By Guest Blogger Dawna Kreis

I’d like to be able to say that our family is among those that have emerged unscathed by the economic hardships being experienced by many these days.   Unfortunately, I cannot.

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It has not even been a full year since our family packed up our things and walked away from the house that we’d purchased a couple of years ago.  It was one of the most difficult things we’ve had to do.  Had it not arrived at a time when my husband was preparing to PCS (Permanent Change of Station) with the Army, it might have ended up being a good deal more difficult for our family to contend with.

Now, when I first sat down to write this article, I thought of all the ways I could defend our actions.  I tried to find the “right” words that could possibly convince you, the readers, that we acted as responsibly as we could have in our unique set of circumstances, despite the final outcome.  Ultimately, though, it did no good.  In the end, it did not change anything that has come and gone.  It has only been a waste of my energy.  What I am here to say is… we thankfully survived.

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