Post edited 7:52 pm – April 8, 2010 by AREN

What to do when the household is turned upside down because of your spouse's children.  For some odd reason, both son and daughter of his, have decided that they do not like my children.  My son just moved back from being away as a Marine and is now working towards becoming an electrican. My daughter is away at college finishing  doctorate in nutrition. 

My son has been home and staying with us for a month. My husband's son has mentioned how uncomfortable things are since my son came home.  There has been no arguments and no socializing between both men. My son is 26 and the other young man is 22. My son has asked  the other young man to do some activites together, so as working out, movies, etc… got turned down so he stopped inviting.  My son is planning on moving to his own place by next month.   My daughter is coming home again for the summer for a few weeks , last year I  got her a hotel room because they other young adults did not like the idea of her being over. 

My children are not partiers, and are very respectable.  They are trying to achieve their dreams. Our friends like them.

My husband's children a daughter 21yrs old single mon, son 22 yrs old married and has not been able to hold a job for longer than 3 months.

We all live under the same roof……..and on this past Easter weekend is when my husband realized that his children for some odd reason do not like mine.  I have never mentioned it  and never would, because I did not want any tension in the relationship.

Before we got married alot of his friends warned me about the children and how they were. I said in time they my change….wrong in time things got worse.

My husband was already divorced for a few years when we met and I was divorced for a few years also. 

The children have known each other since their pre-teen years. We got married after they alll graduated from high school.

I love this man ……but I guess soon I will be moving out of this house ….I can not keep coming home to a house that makes me feel uncomfortable.

any advise ??????