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Archive for the ‘Sex & Sexuality’ Category

Saying, “I Love You”

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

I LOVE YOU. Three simple words. Easy to say. Not often said.

saying i love you

I’ll never forget when my husband, (then boyfriend at the time), told me he loved me for the very first time. We had been dating about 10 weeks, and I was leaving the next day on an already planned backpacking trip through Europe with a girlfriend. We had just finished a romantic dinner, and he dropped me off at home (yes, I lived at home until the day I got married, don’t make fun)! We were discussing whether or not we would stay together for the summer. After all, it was a very fresh relationship, he was staying home to work,  I was leaving the next day, and did it make sense being so young to not “enjoy” Europe? We were parked in front of my house, and came to the agreement that, “Yes, we will keep this relationship going, and remain together throughout the summer.”

He then kissed me, and said “I love you.”

I replied– “Thank you.”

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Is Your Relationship Stuck In A Rut?

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

By Guest Blogger, Rachel Moheban

Picture this..

You’re driving along a seemingly smooth road, no unexpected turns or bumps. All of the sudden, you hit a pothole in the road. Didn’t see that coming…

No matter how hard you rev the engine, you just can’t get out of it. The wheels keep spinning but you’re going nowhere. You’re stuck in a rut!

relationship stuck in a rut

How do you get out of it? Carrying on revving is not going to work, but maybe this isn’t obvious at first. You get more and more frustrated until eventually you get to that ‘aha’ moment – it suddenly dawns on you that you need to change your plan of action, stop revving and try something different.

Problem is what to try? You could try any number of things or call for help, but it just seems so much easier to keep on revving. Surely, eventually it should sort itself out? Right?

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Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

marilyn monroe jfk

Only published photo ever of Marilyn Monroe and JFK together (and his brother, Robert F. Kennedy to the left) just released. The reason being, the Secret Service and the FBI confiscated every single photograph of them together. There were specific instructions never to photograph these two together.

This is her last major public appearance before her mysterious death in August 1962. She would have been 84 yesterday.

In this dress, she had just finished singing the famous, “Happy Birthday Mr. President” to JFK at Madison Square Gardens, for his 45th birthday gala.

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Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

rachel uchitel

Is there something wrong with this picture?

Take a look at your new nightly correspondent and this weekend’s co-host of Extra.

Miss Rachel Uchitel, one of the ladies responsible for Tiger’s Woodies.

There’s just something so wrong, but so expected about this.

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So This Morning I Got The Call…

Friday, May 14th, 2010

From my mother-in-law, that is… “Hi, doll. Can you guys come for dinner tonight? Oh, and pack an overnight bag for the boys, they can sleep over.” Um, yah, how fast can we be over?!? First double sleep out in over a year!!

mom needs a break

But the truth is, I totally feel like I need a break from the kids lately. Anyone feel this way? And I say that with obvious guilt, because I feel like it makes me sound like a bad mother. But I eat, sleep, breath, shit and live for my kids. I’m a deeply devoted mother.  But, I still can’t remember the last time I actually did shit in privacy without someone sitting on the floor next to me talking my ear off (I’m a regular morning or evening goer, which means there’s always someone around)! In fact, because this is my very own Blog, and therefore my safe space for me and my readers, I will tell you how I killed my husband last week. He found me at 7:30am, sitting on the toilet (not #1), talking to my mom on the phone, and eating my bagel and peanut butter, all simultaneously! Ewwwww you’re thinking! But yes, there is nothing that phases me, and I’m a multi-tasking psycho! OK????

So, tonight, we get the break. I will undoubtedly eat quickly (and a lot… my mother-in-law always makes delicious food, and lots of it) and then me and hubby will skedaddle and do one of  the following 5 things:

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Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, May 5th, 2010

Back in the day

BACK IN THE DAY. LESSONS IN MARRIAGE.

Do you love it?

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Sometimes I Just Wanna Dance…

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

Have you ever looked at your life, your daily routine, your kids, your job, and thought… I just wanna throw on a pair of heels, and dance the night away? I confess, I have.

sometimes i just wanna dance

I was just reminiscing with a girlfriend the other day. We used to live in the same apartment building when we were both first married… us on the 5th floor, her on the 4th. And boy was it fun! We all worked hard during the week and partied on the weekends. We slept in till ungodly hours with no distractions.  We hung out smoking in each other’s apartments, watching movies, chilling with friends. It was the life… except… we didn’t appreciate it! We desperately wanted to get pregnant and settle in, trading late night partying for late night bottle feedings.

And so we did. And it has been unbelievable every step of the way. I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

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