http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/ For all Women On the Fence in Life, in Love, at Work it's time to GET OFF THE FENCE and start living! Mon, 21 May 2012 17:51:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-9219 5 Life Lessons Learned From My Son’s Near Death Experience | WomenOnTheFence.com Thu, 25 Aug 2011 13:05:04 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-9219 [...] Cut yourself some slack – I was riddled with guilt.  I couldn’t get through the day without feeling sick with self-loathing.  But slowly, I [...] [...] Cut yourself some slack – I was riddled with guilt.  I couldn’t get through the day without feeling sick with self-loathing.  But slowly, I [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-5983 How Busy Is Too Busy? | WomenOnTheFence.com Mon, 21 Feb 2011 17:28:57 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-5983 [...] I couldn’t help but think back to something that happened two weeks ago. And then that sinking feeling of guilt came over me again. It was definitely my warning sign to slow down. We had been gearing up for our [...] [...] I couldn’t help but think back to something that happened two weeks ago. And then that sinking feeling of guilt came over me again. It was definitely my warning sign to slow down. We had been gearing up for our [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-5572 Trading Prada for Peace | WomenOnTheFence.com Mon, 31 Jan 2011 15:34:17 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-5572 [...] I was had always made the excuse that my career was benefiting my husband and daughter.  I was sacrificing my motherhood to provide a financial safety net for my family.  I also realized that I did not want to disappoint my own parents by giving up the career they were so proud of.  I was looking to blame someone else (my parents, my husband, even my daughter) for my health and the loss of my twins.  After much suppressed anger and crying every time I found myself alone, I realized that I chose to make my career the priority in my life.  Imaging that… me!  I had a hard time accepting the fact that my choices led to my circumstances.  As hard as I tried, I had no one to blame except myself. [...] [...] I was had always made the excuse that my career was benefiting my husband and daughter.  I was sacrificing my motherhood to provide a financial safety net for my family.  I also realized that I did not want to disappoint my own parents by giving up the career they were so proud of.  I was looking to blame someone else (my parents, my husband, even my daughter) for my health and the loss of my twins.  After much suppressed anger and crying every time I found myself alone, I realized that I chose to make my career the priority in my life.  Imaging that… me!  I had a hard time accepting the fact that my choices led to my circumstances.  As hard as I tried, I had no one to blame except myself. [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-2926 Mommy Guilt | WomenOnTheFence.com Fri, 01 Oct 2010 13:14:26 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-2926 [...] a Mom friend of mine confided in me that when she had her first child, she did not feel any guilt at all…UNTIL one day another Mom asked her if she ever feels guilty about doing things for [...] [...] a Mom friend of mine confided in me that when she had her first child, she did not feel any guilt at all…UNTIL one day another Mom asked her if she ever feels guilty about doing things for [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-2126 Mommy Wars | WomenOnTheFence.com Tue, 20 Jul 2010 16:38:08 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-2126 [...] anything all day.  While the stay-at-home mom is defending her right to stay home, while quietly feeling guilty for not helping the family [...] [...] anything all day.  While the stay-at-home mom is defending her right to stay home, while quietly feeling guilty for not helping the family [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-1579 So This Morning I Got The Call... | WomenOnTheFence.com Fri, 14 May 2010 15:10:03 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-1579 [...] feel like I need a break from the kids lately. Anyone feel this way? And I say that with obvious guilt, because I feel like it makes me sound like a bad mother. But I eat, sleep, breath, shit and live [...] [...] feel like I need a break from the kids lately. Anyone feel this way? And I say that with obvious guilt, because I feel like it makes me sound like a bad mother. But I eat, sleep, breath, shit and live [...]

]]> http://womenonthefence.com/2009/09/29/guilt-guilty-guilty-guilty/comment-page-1/#comment-1146 Reflections of a Weekend | WomenOnTheFence.com Mon, 12 Apr 2010 18:42:17 +0000 http://womenonthefence.wordpress.com/?p=376#comment-1146 [...] I saw the disappointment in his eyes. I saw the sadness  on his face. And then, the dagger of guilt through my heart! I knew he wanted me there. And so, here was the defining moment of all my years [...] [...] I saw the disappointment in his eyes. I saw the sadness  on his face. And then, the dagger of guilt through my heart! I knew he wanted me there. And so, here was the defining moment of all my years [...]

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